Do’s & Don’ts in Susral

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Do's & Don'ts in Susral

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For all the girls.. who are married or going to marry some expert advises by Saira (Part-1) *DONTs*
1- Nvr say “Laayen ammi mein kardun”..”Aray bhabi mujhe de den” “Aray Nani chaaye bana doon?”..ye over acting shuru mein achaye baney gi,baad mein Jaan ki azaaab,jub ghar walay bagher aap k poochay kahen gay “Aray bahu! ye kardo, Haan suno ye zara Teesri manzil se to laado, Bhaabi chaaye to banaden”

2- See each & evry thng with eyes wide open..bt glue ur lips. Dnt give muft mashwaras to any if nobody asks U. Its like “Aaa bail..mujhe aa k Zorr se maar”
3- No matter, how serious is the situation “NEVER Shout” infront of ur in-laws [read it 10 times to get it well through your mind- N E V E R – S H O U T it really creates such a bad impression. (“Maa ne tameez nahe sikhaaye”, Hawww kesey Jahilon ki tarhan cheekh rahe thhi na? toba toba etc will be the expctd outcomes)
4- If u are going out for dinner, always ask ur Saas “Ammi aap k liye kuch le aayen”..? rather than “Plz Ammi aap saath chale na. Aap k bagher kia maza aaye ga”.Blv me agar aik dafa pooch lia..to meri tarhan hamesha poochna paray ga.
5- Dn’t try to b Over Smart. It will create so many hurdles for u. Try to be as simple as u can. Do what you can. DONT dare to do what you can’t..! 6- Don’t try to be “Who U are NOT”..try to be as NATURAL as u can. Fake “baaten” and “Fake Daaway” aap ko ley dooben gay!

7- Nvr compr ur husband with ur brother or ur frnds husband, or ur sis-in-law’s husband. Nothin is more disgusting for ur husband than this..Blv me..! 8- Dnt demand anything that ur thusband cant afford.Try to understand his financial situation. Be a reason of his smile rather than Depression.
9- Dnt be a burden for anyone, specially if u dnt do any other ghar ka kaam. Atleast ur HUSBAND is ur responsibility.Take care of his Likes & Dislikes.Care for his meals.Ur saas will be so glad..aur kaheen na kaheen,kabhi na kabhi aapko ye jumla sunnay ko mil hi jaaye ga ..”Kuch bhi hai merey betey ka to khayal rakhti hai

10- Always remember, aap apni saas ko apni “Maan” zaroor samjhen. Lekin kabhi bhi apney aapko unki BETI samajhnay ki ghalti na karen.


* DOs *

1- If you are a working lady, then in ur “Jahez”, an Electric Kettle is a must buy..!
Ji haaan My amma out of her extreme love bought me an electric kettle, so that I dont need to run downstairs for making breakfast early in the morning.
Now I dont rush to kitchen early in the morning for that damn cup of tea. My husband makes the tea.. & I butter the slice..! 2- If your “to be bedroom” is not too spacious, then dont buy the big Refrigerator, instead buy room fridge. Bara fridge – baray maslay. Na hogi kamray mein itni jaga wo bechara bahar rakha jaye ga.. to aap ka kia faida hua..!?? KADDU..! 3- Always give respect to your Saas and Susar. Thats really important. If you have any problem with them, try to discuss it with your husband in a very light tone, in a calm relaxing environment. Dont try to fight. Dont shout.
I asked my husband difference between the girl friend and wife. He told me straight : “Bivian bewaqoof hoti hein. Cheekhti chillati bohat hain. Girl friends samajhdar hoti hain.. achi si tayyar ho k soft si voice mein baat keh k saaaaaaab manwaleti hein”
I asked : to aapki girlfriends aise manwaleti hon gi saaaab baaten?
Ali: (nervous) “nahe yaar mein to aik general baat kar raha tha. tum cheekho mat”
Me : mein cheekhi kab?!
Ali : *Khamoshi*

4- Always remember all the birthdays of Susralis plus Mother-in-Law Day and Father in Law Day & Jeth Day & Dewar Day & Nand Day & Maasi day & Mother-in-Law’s most favorite friends Day.
It will generate some space in their Hearts and u never know, they might remember your Birthday too… 5- If your earning and living in combined family system, then must bring something for ur in laws. have dinner with them, give gits, help them if they required so. Thats really important.

Meri Shaadi ka aik sala tajarba cheeckh cheekh k kehta hai k Shaadi chahay Arrange ho ya Love.. aik saal baad saaaaaaab aik jesi hojati hein…
Piyaar Mohabbat ki baaten kia pakayen, kia khaayen tak reh jaati hein.

Meri Shaadi ka aik sala tajarba cheeckh cheekh k kehta hai k Shaadi chahay Arrange ho ya Love.. aik saal baad saaaaaaab aik jesi hojati hein…

Piyaar Mohabbat ki baaten kia pakayen, kia khaayen tak reh jaati hein.

But still in the end, what matters is your husbands love, care and appreciation

I know I am still Ali’s girlfriend. I discuss each and every little thing with him. Thats another thing, he doesnt listen to me anymore He plays Angry Birds, and I keep on telling him that I want to have nandos Peri bites! He watches TV , & I tell him what I did all day Long, He listen to songs , Volume Full and Headfones on ears.. & I tell him k aap ki ammi ne ye kaha wo kia

Since we both are working, we celebrate our friday nites with full enthusiasm. Movie, Lays, Pepsi. Bag mein chupa k laaye gaye Chinese Rice.. after the film, nearly at 03:00 am, as a girl friend, I ask Ali k chhat pe chalen aur wahan chal k taray ginen..Initially he used to say “Tumhara dimaagh to sahe hai?”, but now he insists me “Chalo taray gintay hein!”

& u know what..!? Feelings of being Alone with my Love at my home’s Chhat..at 3 am, nangay paaon in such garmi..aur bohat saari betuki baaten.. ufffff Just unexplainable..! [alag rehnay walon ko kia pata.. combined system k mazay HUH :D]

So dear Girls, All you need to do is..be well prepared for the worst if u r going to a huge combined family system, so that little khushian will seem toooooooooo big.

HUgs and wish u all the Luck.

*Saira*

Do’s & Don’ts in Susral
Do’s & Don’ts in Susral

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